By Bretton Love
The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. How about the way to capture a woman’s heart? Well, this all lies in the little things you do. You may think that picking up groceries is a small task. But to your woman, it means a lot as it shows that she has a caring partner by her side. Surprising your girl is something that you should work on now and then. It goes to show her that you appreciate her and realize that you need to show it. From getting her a silver-dipped rose to prepare dinner for her, there are many ways to show this lovey-dovey side. Note that it should not be an everyday thing because the acts will cease to be surprised.
Here goes nothing:
Get Her a Treat
Maybe your girl is all about watching her weight and hitting the treadmill every chance she gets. But no matter how disciplined she is, she has a weakness, just like everyone else. So indulge her sweet tooth on her cheat days by presenting her with what she secretly desires. From cookies to ice cream to chocolates, there are many ways to go about this.
Do the Chores
So she gets up and mops the house, cleans the dishes, makes the food, and cleans the clothes. After all this, she heads out to pick up the groceries, tend to her work, pick up the kids, and comes home tired. While she may not complain about how much she has to handle, she would appreciate some help. One day, get up earlier than she does and do some of the chores. It could be something as simple as taking out the trash and cleaning the house. She will see it and appreciate your help.
Call Her at Odd Times
You probably head into work and bury yourself in documents till it’s time to head home. As you pack up ready to leave, you spare some time to check your texts and calls. That is when you get the time to call her up and respond to her messages. Sure, you need your job to pay the bills, but that does not mean you cannot spare some time during the day. Now and then, call her when you are at work. Let her know that she is on your mind. You could send her flirty and funny texts, too. Go back to the basics of dating and watch how she responds to it. You will probably find a hot meal and a giddy girl waiting for you at home.
Create Some Memories
Photographs are a great way to create memories, and they allow you to have fantastic bonding times with loved ones. With this in mind, gather the pictures she likes most of the two of you and create an album with the same. Any time she wants to think about the relationship, she can go through the album and reminisce about the good times. On this note, you could also make her day by changing your phone’s wallpaper to her picture. Let her find out about it on her own to make the realization even more special.
Cook for Her
From breakfast to lunch to dinner, there are many meals you can whip up for your favorite girl. Where you are short on time, you could make her a snack to keep those hunger pangs away. If your cooking skills are wanting, order takeout instead and take her out on a picnic. In the end, it is the thought that counts, and the ends will justify the means.
Finally, save up some cash and whisk her away on a getaway that she will live to remember. Good luck!
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