Met Opera Chandelier Dedication To Donald Tober In New York City (Photos)

March 2, 2023

Monday night at Lincoln Center two hundred friends joined Barbara Tober to celebrate the naming of The Metropolitan Opera’s seven lobby chandeliers in memory of her beloved husband, Donald Gibbs Tober. 

At 6:15 promptly the Met’s General Manager, Peter Gelb made a toast:

“As you know, we are here to celebrate the memory of Donald Tober with tonight’s dedication, which is the result of a generous gift to The Met from Donald’s loving wife, Barbara. Besides being the genius behind Sweet’N Low, and according to Leonard Lauder, no less, the best fellow salesman he ever knew, Donald was a world traveler, sportsman, magnanimous, philanthropist, to The Met and other causes, and an avid dancer.  It was here on the Grand Tier that Donald and Barbara danced under the famous Met chandeliers above us, celebrating the New Year.  Following the premieres of various Met productions over the years, it was the inspiration that guided Donald’s success as the business magnet of Sugar Foods. And it was a serendipitous inspiration that was responsible for The Met’s chandeliers. Their design actually was an accident.  The result of an ink spill on an architectural rendering of the new Met Lobby that was on a deadline to be presented to The Met board.  Thinking fast, and was no time to lose, architect Wallace Harrison’s assistants drew spokes connecting the ink spots, [laughs]. Thus, the Sputnik design for the iconic Met chandeliers, under which Donald and Barbara danced, was created. The plaque reads, in part, “May these joyful lights shine forever in the memory of Donald Gibbs Tober. Love, Barbara.”

Mrs. Tober also spoke,

“Opera is the singing of a story. That is why we come to experience that special drama. You Are the Sunshine of My Life and many other songs about light and the sun, and the glory of life. We’re playing many of them during this party on the piano, Donald’s favorite instrument. Nothing is more apropos. Donald and I had a beautiful life together. A life of love, work, travel, and art, all of which enriched our relationship and helped us grow both individually and together. Something led to the spiritual moment that greets us today.  We always supported the opera, but especially now. Donald’s light will shine, in such a glorious place in the city he loved and nurtured, forever. This is the way he, and everyone else who comes through the doors, will continue to enjoy the graceful lifting of the lights each night when “The House” is in play.  And Peter, if these lights ever start twinkling just wave back; he’s probably just taking a walk.”

In closing, she mentioned the magical element of “Donald Dust” which she hoped would endow this project with potent magic.

Guest included Afsaneh Akhtari-Smith, Richard Armstrong, Carrie Barratt, Ariane Batterberry, Geoffrey Bradfield, Noreen Buckfire, Young Yang Chung, Cece Cord, Machine Dazzle (stopping by on his way to pick up an Obie), Jamie deRoy, Charles Fabius, Florence Fabricant, Helen Fioratti, Maria and Kenneth Fishel, Helen Fisher and John Tierney, Carole and John French, Mr. and Mrs. Ali Wambold, Mark Gilbertson, Archduchess Emmanuella Habsburg-Lothringen and Archduke Dominic Habsburg-Lothringen, Isabelle HarnoncourtFeigen, Dr. and Mrs. William Haseltine, Sylvia Hemingway, Mary Hilliard, Cynthia Hornblower,  Dr. Nizam Kettaneh, Michele Gerber Klein, Sheila C. Kotur, Judy Lauder, Linda Lindenbaum, Helen Little, William Ivey Long, Mr. and Mrs. Jeffrey Manocherian, Tinu Naija, Peter Olsen, Liane Pei, Maestro Martin J. Piecuch and Elizabeth Moxley Falk, Sana Sabbagh, Dr. Brian R. Saltzman, Mr. and Mrs. Bryant W. Seaman III, Mr. and Mrs. Thomas J. Shiah, Toni Sikes, Bradley Strauchen-Scherer, Elizabeth Stribling and Guy Robinson, Oscar Tang, Barbara Taylor Bradford  OBE, Saundra Whitney, Barbara Winston, Ann Ziff and many many more

By submitting this form, you are consenting to receive marketing emails from: Harlem World Magazine, 2521 1/2 west 42nd street, Los Angeles, CA, 90008, You can revoke your consent to receive emails at any time by using the SafeUnsubscribe® link, found at the bottom of every email. Emails are serviced by Constant Contact

The Metropolitan Opera Chandeliers is one of a number of recent memorials to Donald Tober; the Admissions Building at the Culinary Institute of America (where he served as Vice Chairman) and the board room at Citymeals-on-Wheels (where he was a founder) soon will also proudly bear his name.

Photo credit: 1) Machine Dazzle, Cheryl R. Riley and Tinu Naija. 2-3). Barbara Tober Metropolitan Opera. 4) Caterine Sanchez and John Simon. 4) William Briard Harding and Hera Hyesang Park. 5) Ted Taylor, Samuel Turvey and Adam Johnson. 6) Millie Bratten, Andrea Heinly and Liz Topp. 7) Emma Snowdon-Jones and Geoffrey Bradfield. 8) Marta Dedvukaj, Joanna Johnston, Barbara Tober, Liz Topp and Lisa Vita. 9) Barbara Tober, Noreen Buckfire. 10) Bernadette Lim and August Ceradini. 11) Bernadette Lim and August Ceradini. 12) William Ivey Long, Jamie deRoy and Errol Rappaport. 13) Andrea Walton and Gary Dycus. 14) Llewellyn Sanchez-Werner and Liane Pei. 15) Stanley Zareff and Cece Cord. 16) Kendall Hubert, Afsaneh Akhtari, Gordon Winston, Barbara Winston and Nassrin Iromloo Zahedi.

We're your source for local coverage, we count on your support. SUPPORT US!
Your support is crucial in maintaining a healthy democracy and quality journalism. With your contribution, we can continue to provide engaging news and free access to all.
accepted credit cards

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

You may use these HTML tags and attributes: <a href="" title=""> <abbr title=""> <acronym title=""> <b> <blockquote cite=""> <cite> <code> <del datetime=""> <em> <i> <q cite=""> <s> <strike> <strong>

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

Related Articles